Saturday, September 26, 2009
Brooke Smith: Fight with cancer deepened her faith
Brooke Smith died Friday at the age of 22, but what she taught others about life will continue to
be a part of her family and friends.
By Jorge Valencia | The Roanoke Times
Brooke Smith, a victim of a rare cancer who responded to her complication by making jokes and reading the Bible, died Friday in Roanoke. She was 22. Smith was featured in a 2008 Roanoke Times article that described how her budding career as a hairstylist and hobby as a fearless women's roller derby skater were stopped by a cancer that affects about 100 people a year in the United States.
She was diagnosed that year with alveolar soft part sarcoma, a slow-moving malignancy physicians originally expected wouldn't take its final toll for 10 to 15 years. But her friends and relatives say she sought refuge in God -- even after treatments didn't stop tumor growth, and physicians discovered her condition was advanced.
"Deep faith means your body is racked with pain, and you still put your trust in God," said the Rev. Quigg Lawrence, pastor of Church of the Holy Spirit, where Smith was a member. "She didn't complain one time."Smith grew up in a devout Christian home in Roanoke with her father, Barry; her mother, Becky; and her siblings Ashley, 24, and Mitchell, 18. But after her father died of a sudden heart attack in 2004, she rebelled against the values of her home.
"From then on, God was my enemy, and I didn't trust what God wanted," she said in the 2008 article. After being home schooled and graduating, she enrolled at Virginia Western Community College to study nursing in 2005, and in 2007 switched to the St. Pierre hairstyling school, where she learned haircuts and coloring.
In 2006, she joined a women's roller derby team based at the Star City Skate Center in Northeast Roanoke. In a competition in which competitors relish bashing their opponents, Smith was a crowd pleaser, and her photo was printed in a promotional poster for her team, Star City Roller Girls. The ad asked: "Are you aggressive? Do you have medical insurance?"
"She would grab you by the shoulders, grab you by the face to get around you," said Hunter Flanagan, a friend and teammate. By the time she was diagnosed in September 2008, and was recovering from the removal of back and breast tumors, she stopped skating. Smith turned to her faith and didn't complain about her condition -- even when the femur bone in her right thigh cracked after several radiation treatments for a tumor in her pelvic area.
"The real question I've got to ask is to God: What do you want me to do?" she said in the article.
Brooke Smith: Fight with cancer deepened her faith - She kept a sense of humor and would drop one-line jokes, which became known to her family and physicians as "Brookisms," in days she wouldn't speak much. She became a source of wisdom for people around her, and in her last months asked people to read to her from the book of Psalms in the Bible.
She preached to her friends from her bed, and asked them to remember simple things many take a long time to learn: Don't worry about small things. Don't hate. Laugh often. Forgive others. "She had a way of looking at things," said Cynthia Oliver, 45, a long-time family friend. "She was half my age, but I learned a lot from her."
Copyright © 2009
Brooke Mckinsey Smith
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Brooke captured the true essence of beauty both inside and out. Man looks upon the outside, and God looks upon the heart. I believe they both smiled when they looked at her. She seemed to be born with a smile on her face and was full of life her whole life through, even through her bout (roller derby) with cancer. She loved her family so much and they were very, very important to her. Her sister Ashley, age 23, who was only 14 months older than her, shared everything with her, from food and bedrooms, to clothes and colds. She loved to mother her younger brother Mitchell, age 18, and yet was his close buddy. She made her Mom, Rebecca Wimmer Smith, and her Dad, the late Barry L. Smith, laugh with glee and, at times, lose their hair. Her friend, and Mom #2, Cynthia Oliver and her family had a special place in her heart. Her grandparents, Rose Smith, Shirley Lineberry, Eugene (PaGene) Lineberry, and the late Dennis Earl Wimmer and Clarence L. Smith, were all fun for her to hug and kiss. Numerous close aunts, uncles, and cousins made life beautiful, and her God-ordained family made life complete. She was a social creature and LOVED people. She had so many amazing friends that I hesitate to try and mention you all. Just know that she loved you So Much. God was truly the author and the finisher in Brooke's life. Her relationship with Him was her core, and she returned to Him with an amazing passion. She loved sports, her latest being Roller Derby, which brought her great excitement. Her creativity and love for people shined in her hairdressing skills at St Pierre Salon. Brooke, it's impossible to say goodbye because you will live on eternally through the impact that you made and will continue to make in our lives. We LOVE you Forever and Ever and Ever. Dance With Jesus until we see you again! Contributions can be made to the Brooke Smith Memorial Fund at any BB&T Bank, account #1430000375266. Services will be at The Church Of The Holy Spirit on Merriman Road at 12 noon Monday, September 28, 2009. Dr. Quigg Lawrence will officiate. Interment will follow in Evergreen Burial Park. A receptions will be held at the church at approximately 4:30 p.m. Monday. The family will receive friends at The Church Of The Holy Spirit from 7 to 8:30 p.m. Sunday September 27, 2009. Arrangements by Oakey's South Chapel
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